You’re high-functioning on the outside, but exhausted, overwhelmed, or stuck on the inside.

You may appear capable and composed on the outside, yet internally feel exhausted, overwhelmed, or stuck in patterns around food, body image, work, or relationships. At WholeSelf Therapy, we provide online therapy across Ontario, supporting adults, adolescents, and couples who want sustainable change – not quick fixes.

We specialize in working with high‑achieving individuals who are tired of holding everything together and ready to feel more regulated, grounded, and connected to themselves.

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Virtual therapy across Ontario • No pressure • A chance to see if we’re the right fit

When Coping Strategies Stop Working

Many people seek therapy when the ways they have learned to cope begin to cost more than they help. You might notice:

  • Persistent anxiety, emotional overload, or burnout

  • A complicated or distressing relationship with food or your body

  • Perfectionism that makes rest feel impossible

  • Emotional shutdown or reactivity in relationships

  • Feeling “functional” but deeply depleted

These patterns often develop for good reasons  as ways to manage stress, expectations, trauma, or responsibility. Therapy at WholeSelf focuses on understanding these patterns with compassion, rather than judgment, and creating new ways of responding that support long‑term wellbeing.

WholeSelf Therapy offers a variety of services

All Areas Of Focus

Online Therapist North Bay

Chloe Houlder, BA (Hons), MACP, Registered Psychotherapist

Your Strength - Our Support

WholeSelf Therapy is a virtual psychotherapy practice providing trauma-informed online therapy across Ontario, with a focus on eating disorders, body image concerns, burnout, emotional regulation, and relationship challenges.

The practice is grounded in the belief that symptoms are not failures – they are often intelligent responses to stress, pressure, trauma, or unmet needs. Therapy at WholeSelf is collaborative, compassionate, and evidence-based, supporting clients in developing insight, emotional safety, and sustainable change.

Care is delivered through a structured yet flexible approach, integrating evidence-based modalities and tailored to each client’s goals, pace, and lived experience. The focus is on helping clients move away from cycles of control, shame, or overwhelm and toward greater self-trust, regulation, and balance.

How Therapy Works

1. Start With a Free Consultation

A brief consultation helps clarify your goals and ensures therapy feels like the right fit.

2. Build Safety and Understanding

Sessions focus on nervous system regulation, emotional awareness, and insight into long‑standing patterns.

3. Create Sustainable Change

Using evidence‑based tools, therapy supports flexibility, self‑trust, and changes that last beyond sessions.

Compassionate, Evidence-Based Therapy

Specialized Care for High-Functioning Struggles

We understand the hidden challenges behind perfectionism, burnout, and deep sensitivity, and create space for lasting change.

Evidence-Based & Trauma-Informed Approaches

Therapy is tailored with modalities like CBT, ACT, DBT, and trauma-informed care to support healing that fits your unique needs.

Accessible & Flexible Support

Virtual sessions across Ontario, free consultations, and limited sliding-scale spots make quality therapy more approachable and convenient.

Schedule a Virtual Consultation Call Today!

If you are looking for online therapy in Ontario, counselling in North Bay, or specialized support for eating disorders, body image concerns, or burnout, WholeSelf Therapy is here.

Book a free consultation today and take the first step toward feeling more like yourself again.

Some Commonly Asked Questions

Who do you work with?

We support adults, teens (13+), and couples across Ontario, particularly those identifying as high-achievers, deep feelers, people-pleasers, or individuals recovering from trauma, burnout, or disordered eating.

As of right now, all sessions are conducted virtually, providing flexibility and comfort for clients across Ontario.

Therapy with a Registered Psychotherapist is covered under many extended health benefit plans in Ontario. Since coverage can vary, it’s recommended to check directly with your provider to confirm the details of your plan. Payment is due on the day of your session, and a detailed receipt will be provided for you to submit for reimbursement.

  • Individual therapy sessions (50 minutes): $170-$195
  • Couples therapy sessions (50 minutes): $225

We offer a free 15-minute phone consultation to help determine the right fit for your needs.

We have a limited number of sliding scale spots. Contact us if interested. 

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